Be The Love You Are

Booking  a Snuggle is easy as 1,2,3

​Thank you for wanting to book a sweet embrace with us !  Each snuggler here is certified by Be the Love You Are after attending our professional snuggler training program. They are now independent business owners who decide who they work with and when.  Please peruse the Snuggle Stars and see if someone suits you and your needs. Contact the snuggler of your choice directly and arrange your session time. 

Read the full agreement below and the FAQ info. By paying for a session you are agreeing to the terms and rules of the engagement. Please read this section before scheduling so that everything goes as smoothly as possible. 
 The SNUGGLE STARS !

Rayne

I'm a Professional Cuddler, Yogini, and Artist who loves to nurture. I moved to Boulder from Chicago to study opera and acting, and soon discovered that I had a gift for direct healing and empowerment through connection.

Platonic cuddling sessions bring connection, healing touch, and PLAY to every client! Touch and intimacy are beautiful contributors to human development, especially when it comes to relating with yourself and with others. 
Along with my repertoire of practices for healthy communication and authentic relating, I will provide nourishment for the soul through laughter, compassionate listening, and a nurturing gentle presence that will leave you feeling refreshed. 

To inquire about services, or to book a snuggle session with Rayne, send an email to raynesofley@yahoo.com or call (720) 295-0796.

How to know if cuddling is right for you:
-You desire more human touch, connection, and intimacy
-You want to explore boundaries and relationship in a safe space
-You want to come to know and love your body/self!
-You want a space to play and express with a loving, attentive partner
Benefits of cuddling include:
-Relaxation
-Relief from stress & tension
-Better sleep
-Safe non-sexual touch

One hour sessions cost $80, but your first session is $60!

If clients want to book a package of 3 sessions in advance, a 10% discount is applied. 
We require that the first session be paid in advance, to ensure the safety and legitimacy of the client and the snuggler. Paypal is the preferred method of payment for the first session. Any sessions after that can be paid at the session with cash.

https://www.snuggleupwithme.com/

Cordelia

Cordelia brings a wealth of experience in creating the space and feeling that allows a wonderful experience of nurturing and oneness that snuggling can create. Whether you are experimenting with intimacy in a new novel way or you are trying to heal something that might be blocking you from true closeness with yourself or a partner then Cordelia can guide you. You session will be fun, light hearted and heart opening. 
​To inquire about booking a snuggle session with Cordelia, send an email to ​cordeliascuddles@gmail.com or call 720-514-9207

Chris DeCicco the Cosmic Teddy Bear and Original Snuggle King

​Before calling for an appointment it is important to read the details and agreements below please. 

BE THE LOVE YOU ARE SNUGGLE SESSION - WAIVER OF LIABILITY and Hold Harmless Agreement

1. In consideration for participating in the Snuggle session , I hereby RELEASE, WAIVE, DISCHARGE, AND COVENANT NOT TO SUE Ape Escape LLC / DBA Be The Love You Are or their Agents " Snugglers " (hereinafter referred to as RELEASEES) from any and all liability, claims, demands, actions, and causes of action whatsoever arising out of or related to any loss, damage, or injury, that may be sustained by me, while participating in such activity, while in, on or upon the premises where the activities are being conducted, REGARDLESS OF WHETHER SUCH LOSS IS CAUSED BY THE NEGLIGENCE OF THE RELEASEES, or otherwise and regardless of whether such liability arises in tort, contract, strict liability, or otherwise, to the fullest extent allowed by law.

2. I am fully aware of the risks and hazards connected with the activities and I hereby elect to voluntarily participate in said activities. I understand that Be The Love You Are does not require me to participate in this activity. I voluntarily assume full responsibility for any risks of loss, property damage, or personal injury,. WHETHER CAUSED BY THE NEGLIGENCE OF RELEASEES or otherwise, to the fullest extent allowed by law.

3. I further hereby AGREE TO INDEMNIFY AND HOLD HARMLESS the RELEASEES from any loss, liability, damage, or costs, including court costs and attorneys' fees that Releases may incur due to my participation in said activities, WHETHER CAUSED BY NEGLIGENCE OF RELEASEES or otherwise, to the fullest extent allowed by law.

4. It is my express intent that this Waiver and Hold Harmless Agreement shall bind the members of my family and spouse, if I am alive, and my heirs, assigns and personal representative, if I am deceased, and shall be deemed as a RELEASE, WAIVER, DISCHARGE, AND COVENANT NOT TO SUE the above-named RELEASEES. I hereby further agree that this Waiver of Liability and Hold Harmless Agreement shall be construed in accordance with the laws of the State of Colorado and that any mediation, suit, or other proceeding must be filed or entered into only in Colorado and the federal or state courts of Colorado. Any portion of this document deemed unlawful or unenforceable is severable and shall be stricken without any effect on the enforceability of the remaining provisions.

IN SIGNING THIS AGREEMENT, I ACKNOWLEDGE AND REPRESENT THAT I have read the foregoing Wavier of Liability and Hold Harmless Agreement, understand it and sign it voluntarily as my own free act and deed; no oral representations, statements, or inducements, apart from the foregoing written agreement, have been made; I am fully competent; and I execute this Agreement for full, adequate and complete consideration fully intending to be bound by same.

I commit to maintain the Agreements for the Snuggle Session, which are :

1. All participation is a co-creation between the parties meaning that both have the right to take breaks from snuggling or turn down certain requests at anytime.
2. I agree to ask for permission before touching and receive a verbal yes. If you receive a no thank you then please thank them for taking care of themselves.
3. This is a non-sexual session so no genital or breast touching .
4. No kissing or dry humping as these would be considered too sexually activating. 
5. No nudity, all clothes must stay on.  Shorts , and tank tops are ok. 
6. There is a strict privacy policy observed. Client information and identity is not shared.
7. The snuggler has the right to stop the snuggle at anytime if they feel the agreements or boundaries are not being respected.
8. If you have to be reminded of the agreements more than twice you will be asked to leave and no refund will be issued.
9. We agree to treat each other with respect, kindness and love.
 
Thank you and happy snugglin'

FAQ + Policies

​Q: Do you have a Confidentiality policy?
A: Yes, privacy and confidentiality are maintained in order to provide a safe space you can be yourself without fear of judgment. Client information is secured and protected.

Q: Will I get to meet my snuggle partner before snuggling? 
A: Yes you will have a connecting meeting to review the guidelines, boundaries and agreements as well as discuss any intentions or specific individual requirements you may request before starting.

Q: Is actual snuggling required during the session? 
A: No it is not. It is totally ok if you decide to be together without touching. Also if at any time you feel uncomfortable and want to stop or take a break it is welcomed if you communicate what you want or need. Part of the value of this type of connection for some people is having a direct experience for practice and growth in learning to state desires and communicate boundaries in order to build confidence in relating and creating intimacy in a way that can be healing and empowering. The snuggle session can also be as interactive and exploratory as you want to co-create so bring your imagination and playful side and see what develops !

Q: What should I wear? 
A: Please wear clothes that are comfortable like yoga pants or loose fitting clothes like sweats or pajamas in order to maximize your comfort and enjoyment for the duration. You will also have a place to change if needed.

Q: Can I remove clothes during the session?
A: Sorry but the cuddle sessions are clothed at all times with no nudity.

Q: What happens if sexual energy is aroused?
A: It is perfectly normal and ok for arousal to happen. No one will be uncomfortable as long as all boundaries of no sexual activity are maintained and honored.

Q: Is talking permitted during the snuggle session ? 
A:Talking is ok and seems to flow when cuddling is involved although it is not expected or required. Feeling comfortable to be yourself is the goal.

Q: Is snuggling considered therapy ?
A: Although not officially considered a therapy we aim to change that. When you feel the relaxing, restorative and soothing results of safe human touch and affection in your body you might just feel like life is just a little kinder and gentler. It is worth pointing out the obvious difference from the patient / client relationship in traditional therapy and one of the reasons we offer this alternative modality. We feel the value of intention to connect to each other in all realms from physical, spiritual and energetically in this holistic way has a powerful effect on the neurological patterns of the brain and patterns in the body in a positive way.

Q: What if I fall in love with my snuggle partner?
A: The feeling and the energy of LOVE can be the result of surrendering to receiving a gift fully in this way. The type of love that is not possessive or attached but a free and liberating feeling. The healing and or opening of your heart in also one of the goals and biggest benefits of the service. Love of self , love of other, love of all. As for your snuggle partner feel free to express your love in a way that is healthy and within the boundaries of the service.

Q: Is tipping required or accepted?
A:Tipping is not required but can be a great way to show your appreciation and gratitude for the experience.

ZERO TOLERANCE POLICY
The agreements that you will be required to agree on are very clear. There will be no touching of sexual parts. Permission must be asked for and consent in the form of a yes to any touching. These are the main foundational principles that will help create an environment of respect, saftey, and consciousness.

CONSENT The word yes is the only 100% unambiguous yes. The snuggler will have the right to stop the session at any time and you may be asked to leave without a refund.

HYGIENE POLICY
For our comfort and well being, please shower close to appointment time. Your mouth should be cleansed and perfumes/colognes should be avoided.

CANCELLATION 
Please call 24 hours in advance to avoid any charges.