Be The Love You Are

Do you want more connection, love, passion and satisfaction in your life?

Be the Love You Are was founded to help each person realize that they are a pure extension of source energy love. We want to help you to know the feeling of love, happiness, joy and a sense of being fully alive, that is your birthright. A love that does not need to be earned but is divine grace, free flowing, uninhibited, joyful, empowering, healing, and passionate. All of it for you to experience without fear , shame or guilt. The kind of love that you can feel in everything you do, are , give and be.

The inspiration for starting the company was based on my own journey of growth and healing in the areas of relationship, intimacy and love. I wanted to find a way to act more from my heart and an alignment with my soul/spirit and inner being.  I did this in some unconventional ways, with intention, study , practice, teachings, exploration, and experimentation. I attended many events and experiences that are based on the wisdom of the sacred arts and newer evolving human contact, intimacy and touch based technologies.  This lead to learning about modern forms of tantra, conscious loving, and non-sexual cuddling. What I experienced in some of these new forms of loving was that they helped me meet a fuller spectrum of needs than I had even realized were desired or possible. I experienced an elevated level of self-confidence, connectedness and vibration of appreciation that I wanted to share with others. 

We now offer services across the spectrum of connection with ourselves, others and our source. These include guided conscious contact experiences for all people interested in sharing authentic communication, intimacy and or affection while staying within our own boundaries and agreements. These include one on one non- sexual snuggle sessions as well as education about conscious loving, tantra and relational intimacy skills. 

All of our offerings are individually tailored to the clients needs with a foundational intention of helping you love yourself and others in a more fulfilling and sustainable way.

So if you are struggling with feelings of loneliness, fear of being intimate with others, or just don't have a partner you feel safe enough to get nurturing closeness and affection that does not always have to lead to sex please try a snuggle session. We work with people of all genders and preferences. Some book a session because they just want the warmth of another without pressure,  for others the thought of cuddling with a partner or stranger evokes the fight or flight response. We work with all situations and have the experience to help you heal or just have fun which ever the need is. 

Our focus in all our work together will be mostly on your vision for your future as well as enjoying your present experience more fully. 

Please call if you have questions, requests or would like to book a session on 303-919-0768
How to become a professional snuggler course  just announced ! 


Meet Rayne - A Snuggle Star and recent graduate of the professional snuggler training program.
The documentary details Director Jason O'Brien's journey of discovery about the remarkable industry of cuddling as a healing practice and service. Jason traveled to Boulder among a number of states and spent 3 amazing days with the team at Be the Love You Are capturing live sessions, a snuggle party and more. He asked the deeper questions about why someone would want to pay for a professional snuggle, why would a healer want to provide this service and can we really only snuggle without sex being involved?  If you are thinking of trying the service or becoming a professional this is a great way to get an inside view of what it's like. 

​The Snuggling Industry Takes Off, but Clothes Stay On; Spooning Sessions for a Fee.

​This is a legit service that meets the growing need for touch and the feeling of being connected to others. Don't just take our word for it.

Click here to see the Wall Street Journal article on the fast growing industry .
As our programs and community needs have evolved and so have we. The need for a focused sister company , website and content that specializes in what we call re-imagined dating has taken off. We offer Evolved Dating Events, Dating and Love Coaching and Soulmate Matchmaking for conscious singles.  

If you are wanting to attract the love of your life jump over there. The focus is on heart centered fun, interaction and growth for spiritual seekers. Meet your like minded match with more ease and flow. We can mentor you on not only attracting love but sustaining it in all areas of your life.
 Click here to jump to Evolve Dating Gurus website....

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